The secrete of a happy home is not always about what happened during a relationship or courtship. The fact that you pull a relationship with each other for five to ten years does not mean you have completely known each other nor does it guarantee a happy home. Marriage experience is quite different from that of courtship.
Don’t be surprised when you see some couple who have been in a relationship all their lives getting to know their real personalities after they must have gotten married. At that point, two things will happen. They either endure the marriage or end it.
That is why as a lady, you must endeavor to take note of certain habits in your guy before you finally say “yes I do” on the altar. These are habits you need to watch out for.
1. A guy who mostly depends on parents for decision making don’t always make a good husband. It is a good thing to seek for counsel from ones parents but there are some situations where a guy needs to be firm and assertive with his stance.
But when he has to depend on his parents completely before he takes his decision, then the trend may likely continue after marriage. And when this happens, the woman will suffer the consequences.
2. A man who derive more pleasure in company of his friends than being with his family does not always make a good husband. Some men hardly stay around their family. They may give them enough money to take care of themselves, but when it comes to making themselves available, they will give excuses.
These are men who prefer hanging around with friends at joints, Cenemas and other social environments to being around and establish a good rapport with their wives and children . Men in this category don’t always make good husbands.
3. When a guy hardly picks his call in your presence, he is definitely keeping some secrets from you. And in most cases, it is another woman on the line. A man who double dates while in a relationship will never be faithful to his wife when he gets married.
Ladies should be careful of these men, they are disaster waiting to happen.
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